Playing Through
Playing through means that a faster group passes the slower group and the order of groups on the course changes.
Playing through is the etiquette solution for differing pace of play on the course. If your group loses a full hole to the group ahead and is holding up the group behind you, you are obliged to let them play through. This is common on a par 3: you hole out, stand beside the green and wave the following group up to the tee. Alternatively, on a par 4 or par 5 you let the faster group play through from your own tee box or from a safe spot at the edge of the fairway.
In practice it is easier than many think. An example: your group is looking for a ball in the rough, and the group behind you is already standing on the tee waiting. Instead of searching frantically on, you signal with a raised arm that they may hit. They play through, you keep searching in peace, and afterwards things continue relaxed for both sides. Important: playing through is not a defeat but normality — even good players let faster groups pass, for example when they had to search for a ball.
Typical misconception: the faster group has no automatic right to play through if everything ahead of the slower group is full as well. What always matters is your position relative to the group ahead, not the pressure from behind. Conversely: anyone who waits without ever being waved through mentions it politely or informs the facility's marshal. Playing through works best with a brief wave instead of frustration.
FAQ
When must I let a faster group play through?
When your group has lost a full hole to the group ahead and the group behind you has caught up. What matters, then, is your position relative to the group ahead, not the pressure from behind. If everything ahead of you is full as well, there is no obligation — that would not improve the overall pace of play.
What is the practical way to let a group play through?
Most easily on a par 3: you hole out, stand beside the green and wave the waiting group up to the tee. Alternatively it happens from the tee or from the edge of the fairway on a longer hole, once everyone is in a safe position. A short, clear hand signal is enough — no more theatre is needed.
What do I do if the group ahead never lets me play through?
Mention it politely when an opportunity arises instead of letting frustration build up. If that does not help or it becomes unpleasant, inform the facility's marshal, if there is one. And remember: if you are waiting although you are yourself catching up, relaxed waiting is often faster than any discussion.